How to Find Your Work-Life Balance: At Home

Last week we began our two part-series on how to achieve an effective balance between your home and work life by discussing tips on what to do at work. This week will we wrap up the series with tips on what you can do at home to help balance your life.

  • Turn off your tablet. The same technology that makes it so easy for workers to do their jobs flexibly can also burn us out if we use them 24/7. By all means, make yourself available—especially if you’ve earned the right to “flex” your hours—but recognize the need for personal time, too.
  • Divide and conquer. Make sure responsibilities at home are evenly distributed and clearly outlined—you’ll avoid confusion and problems later.
  • Don’t over commit. Do you feel stressed when you just glance at your calendar? If you’re overscheduled with activities, learn to say,” no.” Shed the superman/superwoman urge!
  • Get support. Chatting with friends and family can be important to your success at home—or at work—and can even improve your health. People with stronger support systems have more aggressive immune responses to illnesses than those who lack such support.
  • Take advantage of your company’s Employee Assistance Program (EAP). Many organizations offer resources through an EAP, which can save you precious time by providing guidance on issues like where to find a daycare center and caretaking for an elderly parent, as well as referrals to mental health and other services.
  • Stay active. Aside from its well-known physical benefits, regular exercise reduces stress, depression and anxiety, and enables people to better cope with adversity, according to
    researchers. It’ll also boost your immune system and keep you out of the doctor’s office. Make time in your schedule for the gym or to take a walk during lunch—and have some fun!
  • Treat your body right. Being in good shape physically increases your tolerance to stress and reduces sick days. Eat right, exercise and get adequate rest. Don’t rely on drugs, alcohol or cigarettes to cope with stress; they’ll only lead to more problems.
  • Get help if you need it. Don’t let stress stand in the way of your health and happiness. If you are persistently overwhelmed, it may be time to seek help from a mental health professional. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness—taking care of yourself is a sign of strength. (© copyright Mental Health America)
Do you have any tips on how you keep things balanced at home? Share them with us!
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How to Find Your Work-Life Balance: At Work

 

Do you sometimes find yourself overwhelmed from the rush of getting everything done at work and at home? If so you may not have a good work-life balance which can cause stress and result in a lack of productivity and concentration, a weakened immune system, irritability and even depression.

Since a great deal of people struggle with both their work load at home and at work we are going to share a two-part series on how to find balance at work and at home. If you think your work-life balance is currently not where it should be consider these tips from Mental Health America on how to get it on track when at work :

  • Set manageable goals each day. Being able to meet priorities helps us feel a sense of accomplishment and control. The latest research shows that the more control we have over our work, the less stressed we get. So be realistic about workloads and deadlines. Make a “to do” list, and take care of important tasks first and eliminate unessential ones. Ask for help when necessary.
  • Be efficient with your time at work. When we procrastinate, the task often grows in our minds until it seems insurmountable. So when you face a big project at work or home, start by dividing it into smaller tasks. Complete the first one before moving on to the next. Give yourself small rewards upon each completion, whether it’s a five minute break or a walk to the coffee shop. If you feel overwhelmed by routines that seem unnecessary, tell your boss. The less time you spend doing busy work or procrastinating, the more time you can spend productively, or with friends or family.
  • Ask for flexibility. Flex time and telecommuting are quickly becoming established as necessities in today’s business world, and many companies are drafting work/life policies.
    If you ask, they might allow you to work flexible hours or from home a day a week. Research shows that employees who work flexible schedules are more productive and loyal to their employers.
  • Take five. Taking a break at work isn’t only acceptable, it’s often encouraged by many employers. Small breaks at work—or on any project—will help clear your head, and improve your ability to deal with stress and make good decisions when you jump back into the grind.
  • Tune in. Listen to your favorite music at work to foster concentration, reduce stress and anxiety, and stimulate creativity. Studies dating back more than 30 years show the benefits of music in everyday life, including lowered blood pressure. Be sure to wear headphones on the job, and then pump up the volume—and your productivity.
  • Communicate effectively. Be honest with colleagues or your boss when you feel you’re in a bind. Chances are, you’re not alone. But don’t just complain—suggest practical alternatives. Looking at a situation from someone else’s viewpoint can also reduce your stress. In a tense situation, either rethink your strategy or stand your ground, calmly and rationally. Make allowances for other opinions, and compromise. Retreat before you lose control, and allow time for all involved to cool off. You’ll be better equipped to handle the problem constructively later.
  • Give yourself a break. No one’s perfect! Allow yourself to be human and just do the best you can. (© copyright Mental Health America)
Do you have any tips on how you keep things balanced at work? Share them with us!

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Companies Cut Back on Benefits and Perks

Have you recently heard someone gripe about the company they work for cutting or completely eliminating some of the benefits? Within the past year many employers have reduced the benefits and perks they offer employees. Most are only offering the basic necessities such as healthcare, dental insurance, retirement plans and paid holidays.

According to the SHRM 2011 Employee Benefits Research Report 77 percent of employers reported to have reduced the benefits they offer, which is a 5 percent increase from the previous year. The report also found that:

  • Financial and compensation benefits have experienced considerable declines throughout the past five years. The most significant decreases were in educational assistance programs, incentive bonus plans and life insurance for dependents.
  • Paid-time-off plans continue to gain in popularity. 81% of organizations review their benefits programs annually.
  • 79% of full-time employees have the option to receive preventive health and wellness benefits.
  • Organizations spent on average 19% of an employee’s annual salary on mandatory benefits, 19% on voluntary benefits and 11% on pay for time-not-worked benefits

Have directly experienced having your benefits cut back; if so what are your thoughts?

Source: The Miami Herald

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